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A common-law agreement, is also known as a cohabitation agreement in BC.
When two people choose to build a life together outside of traditional marriage, that is the marriage part where there is a ceremony and everything is formally made legal, your clarity and protection are essential.
At Pathway Legal, our Common Law Agreements service is designed for couples seeking practical, action-oriented solutions that define their financial, property, and personal commitments—before challenges arise.
With the P.A.T.H. approach—P.ractical, A.ction-oriented, T.rustworthy, and H.eart-centred—we help you craft agreements that respect your values, reduce future stress, and set the foundation for confidence and peace of mind in your partnership.
A lot of folks don’t know this, if you live with someone in a marriage-like relationship for two years or more, the BC Family Law Act will apply to your relationship if it breaks down and you separate. This means that you can end up sharing the assets that grew in value during the course of your relationship.
If bringing up a common law agreement sends your partner into a tailspin or ends the relationship, you should probably count yourself lucky. You’ve just discovered something vital about your compatibility when it comes to trust, transparency, and shared values — and you learned it before getting tangled in the far messier fallout of a bad breakup.
Life rewards those who have the courage to ask the tough questions early. Having a partner who can communicate openly, plan responsibly, and respect boundaries is one of life’s greatest assets. And if they can’t? Well, that’s probably not much of a loss — that could well be a blessing in disguise.
“A person's success in life can usually be measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations he or she is willing to have.” – Tim Ferriss
Here are some cases where folks have obtained a common law agreement (aka a cohabitation agreement or marriage agreement if you are planning to get married) that will make things clear for your cohabitation and in the event that you separate in the future:
So, if you are considering a common law agreement to avoid problems and having a crystal clear future, well done.
Navigating relationships is always an adventure, but in British Columbia, moving in with a partner and sharing a "marriage-like" relationship brings legal obligations—even if marriage is not on your mind and financial independence is your priority. Many people are surprised to learn that simply living together in a spousal-like way creates rights and responsibilities under the law, regardless of your personal intentions. That is why understanding your status as a common law spouse and being clear with your partner in a clearly written agreement is your chance to take proactive, human-centred steps before obligations arise. It is your insurance policy to ensure you’re prepared for what’s ahead.
Forget the myths—common law marriage in BC doesn’t mean an unofficial wedding or a handshake deal. If you’ve lived together in a “marriage-like relationship” for at least two years, the law treats you, for most family law purposes, as spouses under the Family Law Act of BC. This means all the rights and responsibilities of married couples kick in: property division, support, and even the financial surprises you didn’t see coming.
If you’re thinking "what is common law marriage?", it’s about partnership and mutual commitment required under BC law, whether you intended it to or not. It is not about requiring a marriage ceremony..
If you have kids, the time is reduced to one-year for child support purposes.
You don’t need a fancy and formal marriage certificate to gain legal power in your partnership, but you do need to know your obligations.
Here’s what the law is like in practical terms:
If you propose an agreement that simply protects your property and your partner’s response is anger, resistance, or guilt-tripping, take it as a sign. What will this person be like if 10 years down the road you separate? You know the answer. Having this kind of conversation may help you dodge a bullet and significant expense in the long run.
If you’re entering a relationship—or already sharing a home—with someone you care about, clarity and courage are your best allies. Protecting your financial independence isn’t selfish—it’s smart, and it’s practical. A cohabitation agreement that outlines what’s yours, what’s shared, and what stays separate helps preserve trust in your relationship instead of testing it. If your partner says otherwise, we suggest you take a pause, a big pause.
We help BC couples put plans in place that reflect both love and logic—agreements built for real life, not romantic fantasy (although we have nothing against romance either!).. With Pathway Legal, you’re not just protecting assets; you’re building a relationship on trust, candour, and practicality.
To consult with a Pathway Legal lawyer about your common-law agreement, please reach out to us. We are happy to help.