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If you are reading this, you are trying to figure out who is legally responsible for a child’s care, and what that responsibility actually includes. Most often, that means a parent navigating separation. Sometimes it means a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or close family friend stepping in when a parent cannot. Sometimes it means a parent planning ahead, for what happens if they are no longer there.
This page walks through how guardianship works under BC family law: who is a guardian, how to become one, how guardianship differs from the older concept of custody, and the practical mechanics of an application. We help BC families through these matters every day, from our offices in Victoria, Nanaimo, Vancouver, and Surrey, and by video across the province.
What guardianship actually is
Under the BC Family Law Act, guardianship is the underlying legal authority and responsibility to care for a child. A guardian has parenting time with the child, makes decisions about the child’s life, and is legally responsible for the child’s wellbeing.
Guardianship is broader than just spending time with a child. It includes the legal authority to make significant decisions: where the child lives, where they go to school, what medical care they receive, what religious or cultural practices they participate in, what passport or benefit applications they can have made for them, and how their legal and financial interests are protected. Section 41 of the Family Law Act sets out the full list of parental responsibilities a guardian holds.
Ask Journey
If both parents are guardians, who actually gets to make the day-to-day decisions about our kids?
Who is a guardian, by default
Section 39 of the Family Law Act sets the starting points:
These defaults apply automatically. No application or paperwork is needed when both parents have been raising the child together. Most BC families never need to think about guardianship as a separate issue, until something changes.
How guardianship is different from “custody”
BC family law replaced “custody” and “access” with new terminology when the Family Law Act came into force in 2013. The shift was deliberate. The old language framed children as something to be held, possessed, or visited. The new language frames parenting as a set of responsibilities and time arrangements, anchored to the child’s wellbeing.
In current BC law:
If you are reading older articles or talking to friends who divorced before 2013, you will still hear “custody” and “access.” In BC, those words are no longer used.
Does guardianship override a parent’s rights?
The framing has changed. BC family law no longer uses the language of parental rights. The current framework focuses on parental responsibilities and the best interests of the child.
That said, here is the practical answer to the question people are usually asking: if a non-parent (a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or close family friend) is appointed as a guardian by court order, that order replaces or shares the parental authority of any parent it displaces. The court has decided that the child’s best interests are served by the new arrangement. The non-parent guardian now has the legal authority to make decisions for the child.
It is worth saying directly: this is not a popularity contest. Children are presumed to be best raised by their parents, even imperfect parents. A grandparent or other relative who simply believes they could do a better job will not be granted guardianship on that basis. The bar for displacing or sharing a parent’s guardianship is high. The court needs evidence that the child’s best interests genuinely require it.
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My son’s mother has serious addiction issues and the kids are at her house half the time. Can I get sole guardianship?
How a non-parent becomes a guardian
Several paths exist under BC law.
By agreement
A parent (existing guardian) and a non-parent can sign a written agreement giving the non-parent guardianship. This is most often used in supportive situations: a parent with a serious illness who wants a sibling or trusted friend to be able to make decisions if needed, or a parent who wants to share decision-making with a grandparent who is heavily involved in the child’s life.
By court order under section 51
If there is no agreement, a non-parent can apply to the BC Supreme Court or Provincial Court under section 51 of the Family Law Act for an order appointing them as a guardian. The court will grant the order only if it is in the child’s best interests.
Section 51 applications require:
These checks exist to make sure the court is not appointing a guardian who poses a risk to the child. The applications take time. They cannot be rushed through.
In a parent’s will (testamentary guardian, section 53)
A parent who is a guardian can appoint a person to become the child’s guardian if the parent dies. This is done in the parent’s will. On the parent’s death, the named person becomes a guardian along with any other surviving guardians. This is one of the most important parts of estate planning for parents, and it is often overlooked.
Ask Journey
If my partner and I both die, what actually happens to our kids if we have not named a guardian in our wills?

Standby guardian (section 55)
Less commonly used, but valuable. A guardian who is facing terminal illness or imminent permanent incapacity can appoint a standby guardian to take over their role, with full effect, either immediately or upon a defined trigger. This avoids the need for an urgent court application during a medical crisis.
Sharing guardianship
Guardianship is not all-or-nothing. Many BC families work out arrangements where guardianship is shared between a parent and another trusted adult. This commonly happens when:
These arrangements can be drafted to fit the family’s actual situation. A guardianship agreement can specify what each guardian decides, when each guardian acts, and how the arrangement is reviewed or ended.
Full guardianship: when a parent is fully displaced
In rare and serious cases, a non-parent may seek full guardianship of a child, with the parent’s guardianship being terminated or significantly restricted. This is an unusual remedy. It is granted only when the evidence shows that the child’s best interests genuinely require it.
Reasons a court might consider this include:
In serious safety cases, the Ministry of Children and Family Development may also become involved through child protection processes, which are separate from family law guardianship but can intersect with it.
Removing or changing guardianship later
Guardianship is durable but not permanent. It can be changed by court order when circumstances change, and the court continues to apply the best-interests-of-the-child test. A guardian who can no longer fulfill their role, or whose involvement is no longer in the child’s best interests, can be removed.
Changing a guardianship arrangement is not casual. It typically requires evidence of a material change in circumstances and a clear case that the new arrangement better serves the child.
How Pathway Legal handles guardianship matters
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Guardianship questions come up at some of the most consequential moments in a family’s life: a separation, a serious illness, a death, or a child who needs more support than one parent can give alone. Getting the legal structure right protects the child and the adults who love them. We have helped many BC families do exactly that. Our offices are in Victoria, Nanaimo, Vancouver, and Surrey, and we serve clients across the province by video. When you are ready to talk, we are here.
This article is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Family law is fact-specific and the law changes. Reading this does not create a lawyer-client relationship with Pathway Legal. For advice about your situation, consult a qualified BC family law lawyer.